Chapter 30
How To Control The Mind
"Manojaya eva mahajayah-Conquest of mind is the greatest victory."
"Man jita, jag jita--If you conquer mind, you have conquered the
world." (Hindi Proverb)
In Hindu philosophy, you will always find an esoteric and an exoteric
meaning. This is the reason why you need the help of a teacher. It is extremely
difficult to comprehend the esoteric, inner meaning. You will find in Hatha
Yogic books: "There is a young, virgin widow seated at the junction of the Ganga
and the Yamuna." What will you make out of this? It is difficult to understand.
The young widow is the Sushumna Nadi. The Ganga is Pingala Nadi. The Yamuna is
Ida Nadi.
In Katha Upanishad, you will find a word whose meaning is brick. 'Brick'
means here 'Devata' or deity.
The Secret Of Ramayana
There is also a Rahasya (secret) of Ramayana. The secret of Ramayana is
control of mind. Killing the ten-headed monster Ravana of Lanka means the
annihilation of the ten evil Vrittis of the mind such as Kama, Krodha, etc. Sita
is mind. Rama is Suddha-Brahman. Bringing Sita back from Lanka is concentrating
the mind on Rama (Brahman) by withdrawing it from Vishaya (objects) and uniting
it with Rama. Sita (mind) unites with Rama (Brahman), her husband in Ayodhya
(Sahasrara Chakra). Mind merges in Brahman. This is, briefly, the esoteric
meaning of Ramayana. This is the Adhyatmic exposition of Ramayana.
Mastery Of Mind, The Only Gateway To Moksha
On this side is matter; on the other side is pure Spirit (Atman or Brahman).
Mind forms a bridge between the two. Cross the bridge (control the mind). You
will attain Brahman.
He is a real potentate and a Maharaja who has conquered the mind. He is the
richest man who has conquered desires, passions and the mind. If the mind is
under control, it matters little whether you stay in a palace or a cave in the
Himalayas like Vasishtha-Guha, fourteen miles from Rishikesh, where Swami
Ramatirtha lived, whether you do active Vyavahara or sit in silence.
It is, indeed, a rare thing to find a mind that is not affected by its
contact with fluctuation. Like heat which is inseparable from fire, fluctuation
which debases the mind, is inseparable from it. Devoid of this fluctuation, the
mind ceases to exist. It is this fluctuation-potency of the mind that you should
destroy through ceaseless Atma-Jnana enquiry.
Mind is the cause of Sankalpa-Vikalpa. Therefore, you must control the mind.
You must bind it.
True freedom results from the disenthralment of the mind. Reflection of the
Self made upon the mind cannot be perceptible when the mind is not free from its
fluctuations, as the reflection of the moon made upon the surface of a turbulent
ocean cannot be visible or perceptible. To attain Self-realisation, one must
constantly struggle with the mind for its purification and steadiness. It is
only the power of the will which can control it and stop its fluctuations. With
the triple weapon of strong desire, Sraddha (faith) and strong will-power, you
can have sanguine success in any attempt you undertake. If the mind is purged of
all its impurities and worldly taints, it will become exceedingly calm. All
fluctuations of the mind will cease. Then the supreme Nishtha (meditation) will
supervene. Then all Samsaric delusion, attendant with its births and deaths,
will come to an end. Then you will get Parama Dhama (supreme abode of peace).
There is no other vessel on this earth on which one can cross the ocean of
metempsychosis than the mastery of the antagonistic mind. They alone will reach
the world of Moksha who have controlled the serpent of mind replete with desires
and impure Vasanas.
To lovers of Moksha, in whom the invincible desires have been destroyed and
who try to win their way up to Salvation through their own efforts, the easy
abandonment of their dire mind is itself their transcendental path and they then
feel as if a great load were off their heads. No other path is truly beneficial.
If you get the mastery over the mind and get true Jnana or illumination after
destroying Ahankara and subjugating the Indriyas (organs), you will be doubtless
free from the trammels of births and deaths. The differentiations such as 'I,'
'you,' 'he' will vanish. All tribulations, annoyances, miseries, grief will
cease with the destruction of the mind.
Who Can Control The Mind ?
The mind can be controlled by untiring perseverance and patience equal to
that of one engaged in emptying the ocean, drop by drop, with the tip of a blade
of grass.
A bird laid its eggs on the seashore. The waves came in and washed away the
eggs. The bird became very angry. It wanted to empty the ocean with its beak. It
applied all its energy in emptying the ocean. The king of the birds pitied its
condition and came to its help. Narada, the peace-making Rishi, also came and
gave some advice to the bird. When the king of the ocean saw all these, he was
very much terrified. He brought back all the eggs of the bird and handed them
over to the bird with apology and prostrations. Sadhakas (aspirants), who are
attempting to control the mind, should have the same asinine patience and
untiring perseverance as that of the bird which attempted to empty the ocean
with its small beak.
You must have the knack or the pluck or the aptitude to tame the mind. To
tame a lion or a tiger is far more easy than taming one's own mind. Tame your
own mind first. Then you can take the minds of others quite easily.
Mind Is The Cause Of Bondage And Liberation
Mind is the cause of bondage and salvation of man. "Mana eva manushyanam
karanam bandhamokshayoh"-The mind has two aspects-one is discriminative and
the other is imaginative. Mind, in its aspect of discrimination, releases itself
from the bondage and attains Moksha. In its aspect of imagination, it binds
itself to the world.
It is the mind which binds a man to this world; where there is no mind, there
is no bondage. Mind imagines, through indiscrimination and ignorance, that the
soul has been confined and located in this body and hence it perceives the soul
to be in bondage. Mind exactly identifies itself with the Jivatman and feels
itself to be 'I' and hence thinks, 'I am in bondage.' The egoistic mind is the
root of bondage. The non-egoistic mind is the root of Moksha.
Destroy Mind Through Mind
The sovereign specific presented by the wise sages for the eradication of the
mind's disease can be had easily through the mind alone. The intelligent cleanse
a dirty cloth with the dirty earth only. A murderous Agni-Astra (missile) is
counteracted by Varuna-Astra. The venom of serpent-bite is removed by its
antidote of an edible poison. So also is the case with Jiva. Having developed
discrimination, destroy the delusions of the heterogeneous mind through the
one-pointed Manas, like an iron severing another iron.
Purify The Mind
You must be saved from the malformation and the miscarriage of your mind.
Mind is like a playful child. The clamant energies of the mind must be bent to
become the passive channels for the transmission of truth. The mind must be
filled with Sattva (purity). It should be trained to think of Truth or God
constantly.
The Yoga system requires us to go through a course of mental and spiritual
discipline. The Upanishads also emphasise the practice of austere virtues before
the goal can be reached. Tapas destroys sins, weakens the Indriyas, purifies the
Chitta and leads to Ekagrata (one-pointedness of mind).
The penances will give you mental quiet and remove the restlessness of the
mind which is a great obstacle to knowledge. The life of celibacy
(Brahmacharya), where you will have no family attachment to perturb your mind,
would enable you to give whole-hearted attention to your spiritual Sadhana. If
you practise Satya and Brahmacharya, you will become fearless (Nirbhaya). You
will eventually realise Brahman also. Get hold of one thing firmly with
leech-like tenacity. Sraddha or faith is necessary.
Arsenic, when purified and administered in proper doses, is a blessing. It
removes many diseases. It improves the blood. When it is not purified properly
and given in overdoses, it brings about many ill-effects. Even so, when the mind
is rendered pure and Nirvishaya, it leads on to Moksha. When it is impure and
Vishayasakta (fond of sensual objects), it leads on to bondage.
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will have Darshan of the Lord. The
heart must be pure. The eye also must be chaste in its look. There is a tongue
in the eye. A lustful eye wants to taste the different types of beauty for its
selection. Lust of the eyes is as much dangerous as lust of the flesh. Beauty of
nature emanates from the Lord. Train the eye properly. Let it see Atman
everywhere.
The Yogic methods give directions as to how you should purify and refine the
mind and improve the mirror and keep it clean by getting rid of the impurities
such as lust, anger, greed, vanity, jealousy, etc. The aim of Dana, Japa, Vrata,
Tirtha-Yatra, Seva, Daya, Svadhyaya, Agnihotra, Yajna is purification of the
mind.
The Sermon on the Mount by Lord Jesus is the essence of Raja-Yogic Yama
practice. It is difficult to put the teachings into practice. But, if they are
put into practice, mind can be easily controlled.
This is the summary of the Sermon:
(1) "Blessed are the poor in spirit; for theirs is the kingdom of heaven."
(2) "Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted."
(3) "Blessed are the meek; for they shall inherit the earth."
(4) "Blessed are they who do hunger and thirst after righteousness; for they
shall be filled."
(5) "Blessed are the merciful; for they shall obtain mercy."
(6) "Blessed are the pure in heart; for they shall see God."
(7) "Blessed are the peace-makers; for they shall be called the children of
God."
(8) "Blessed are they who are persecuted for righteousness' sake; for theirs
is the kingdom of heaven."
(9) "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall
say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be
exceedingly glad; for great is the reward in heaven; for so persecuted they the
prophets which were before you."
(10) "But I say unto you, that ye resist not evil; but whosoever shall smite
on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also."
(11) "And if any man shall sue thee in the law and take away thy coat, let
him have thy cloak also."
(12) "Love your enemies as thyself, bless them that curse you, do good to
them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute
you."
Before you go to work daily, study once carefully this Sermon of Lord Jesus
in the morning and remember the teachings once or twice during the course of the
day. In course of time, you will be able to regulate your emotions and moods,
cultivate virtue and eradicate vice. You will have immense peace and will-force.
The spiritual path is rugged, thorny and precipitous. Sruti declares:
"Kshurasya dhara nisita duratyaya durgam pathastat kavayo vadanti,-The
path is as sharp as the edge of a razor and impassable; that path, the
intelligents say, is hard to go by." The thorns must be weeded out with patience
and perseverance. Some of the thorns are internal; some are external. Lust,
greed, wrath, delusion, vanity, etc., are the internal thorns. Company with the
evil-minded persons is the worst of all the external thorns. Therefore, shun
ruthlessly evil company.
Do Good And Introspect
Do always virtuous actions. Watch the mind and see what it is doing. These
two methods are quite sufficient to control the mind.
Awaken your spiritual Samskaras by Satsanga, Japa, etc. Protect them. Develop
them. Nourish them. Vichara, Sadhana, Nididhyasana, Satsanga will all pave a
long way in the control of the mind and the attainment of Moksha.
Introspect. Have an inner life always. Let a portion of the mind and hands do
their work mechanically. An acrobat girl, while exhibiting her performances, has
her attention riveted on the water-pot she bears on her head although all the
time she is dancing to various tunes. So does truly pious man attend to all his
business concerns, but has his mind's eye fixed upon the blissful feet of the
Lord. This is Karma-Yoga and Jnana-Yoga combined. This will lead to integral
development. This is balance. This is synthetic Yoga. Some Vedantins have
one-sided development. This is not good.
Do Kirtan
A serpent is very fond of music. If you sing Punnagavarali tune melodiously,
the serpent will come in front of you. Mind also is like a serpent. It likes
melodious tunes very much. It can be entrapped very easily by sweet sounds.
Fix the mind on the sweet Anahata sounds that emanate from the heart by
closing the ears. It can be controlled quite easily by this method. This is
Laya-Yoga. The Ganika Pingala fixed her mind on the "Rama, Rama" sound uttered
by the parrot and attained Bhava-Samadhi. Ramaprasad of Bengal, a famous Bhakta,
controlled the mind through music. Music exercises a tremendous, soothing
influence on a ruffled mind. In America, doctors use music in curing many
diseases, particularly of nervous origin. Music elevates the mind also.
Kirtan, which is one of the nine forms of worship (Navavidha Bhakti) causes
Bhava-Samadhi (union with God through Bhava or feeling). It is prevalent
throughout India. It corresponds to the singing of hymns by Christians.
Ramaprasad realised God through Kirtan. His songs are very famous in Bengal. In
this Kali-Yuga or Iron Age, Kirtan is an easy way to God-realisation. Sing the
Name of Hari constantly. Praise constantly His qualities. You will have Darshan
of Hari. Those who can sing well should retire to a solitary place and sing
heartily with Suddha Bhava. In course of time, they will enter into
Bhava-Samadhi. There is no doubt about it.
Always Think Of God
CONSTANTLY THINK OF GOD. YOU CAN VERY EASILY CONTROL THE MIND. Even if you
think of Lord Vishnu or Siva only once, even if you once form a mental image of
these deities, the Sattvic material will increase a bit. If you think a crore of
times, your mind will be filled with a large quantity of Sattva. Constant
thinking of God thins out the mind and destroys the Vasanas and Sankalpas.
When you fix your mind on Lord Krishna in the lotus of your heart, your
attention is fixed on the figure of Lord Krishna. When the attention is fixed,
the spiritual current is started. When you meditate, the flow of the current
becomes steady and when the meditation gets very deep and intense, 'Union'
(Samadhi) takes place. You become one with the Lord. All Sankalpas and Vikalpas
stop. There is complete 'Chitta-Vritti-Nirodha' (restraint of the modifications
of the mind).
Practise Pranayama
To bring about control of mind, two things are essential, viz.,
Prana-Nirodha (control of Prana) and Sanga-Tyaga (renunciation of Sanga or
association). By the latter is meant dissociation, not with the world, but only
with the longing after or the attraction towards the objects of the world.
Pranayama or control of breath checks the velocity of the mind and reduces
the quantity of thinking. It removes the dross (impurities) in the form of Rajas
and Tamas from the mind.
For control of the mind, Kumbhaka (retention of breath) is indispensable. You
will have to practise Kumbhaka daily. You will have to practise Puraka, Kumbhaka
and Rechaka (inhalation, retention and exhalation of breath) regularly and
rhythmically. Then the mind will become Ekagra. The period of Kumbhaka will
increase by systematic practice, with regulated diet and proper dietetic
discipline (light, nutritious, Sattvic food). This is the Hathayogic method. The
practice of Kumbhaka must be done under the guidance of a Guru who is a
developed Yogin.
Practise Sama And Dama
Uparati of mind (calmness) comes through the practice of Sama and Dama. Sama
is calmness of mind induced by the eradication of Vasanas. Vasana-Tyaga
(renunciation of desires) through discrimination constitutes the practice of
Sama, one of the sixfold virtues (Shatsampatti). If a desire arises in your
mind, do not give way to it. This will become the practice of Sama. Sama is
keeping the mind in the heart by Sadhana. Sama is restraint of the mind by not
allowing it to externalise or objectify. The restraint of the external
activities and the Indriyas is the practice of Dama (Bahyavrittinigraha).
If you renounce the desire for eating mangoes, it is Sama. If you do not
allow the feet to carry you to the bazaar to purchase the mangoes, if you do not
allow the eyes to see the mangoes and if you do not allow the tongue to taste
them, it is Dama.
A desire arises to eat sweets. You do not allow the feet to move to the
bazaar to purchase the sweets. You do not allow the tongue to eat the sweets.
You do not allow the eyes to see the sweets also. This kind of restraint of the
Indriyas is termed Dama.
It is termed Sama when you do not allow any thought to arise in the mind
concerning sweets by eradication of Vasanas (Vasana-Tyaga). This eradication of
the Vasanas can be accomplished through Vichara, Brahma-Chintana, Japa, Dhyana,
Pranayama, etc.
Sama is an internal restraint. Dama is a restraint of the Indriyas. Though
the practice of Sama includes the practice of Dama, as the Indriyas will not
move and work without the help of the mind, yet the practice of Dama is
necessary. The practice of Dama should go hand in hand with Sama. Sama alone
will not suffice. You must attack the enemy, desire, from within and without.
Then alone you can control the mind quite easily. Then alone the mind will be in
perfect control.
Develop Vairagya
Those who practise Vairagya are real tamers of their minds. Have no longing
for objects. Avoid them. Vairagya thins out the mind. Vairagya is a drastic
purgative for the mind. The thief-mind shudders and trembles when it hears the
words, 'Vairagya,' 'Tyaga,' 'Sannyasa.' It gets a death-blow when it hears these
three terms.
Destroy all the pleasure-centres of the mind such as frequently eating dainty
dishes, gossiping, sightseeing, music and company of women slowly and
cautiously. Keep up three Sattvic pleasure-centres such as study of books
dealing with Atma-Jnana, meditation and service of humanity. When you advance in
meditation, give up service and study also for some time. After you have
attained Nirvikalpa state, preach, work and distribute divine knowledge (Jnana
Yajna of the Gita, XVIII-70).
Whatever object the mind likes much must be given up. Whatever object the
mind dwells upon constantly, thinks about very often, must be abandoned. If you
like brinjals or apples much, give them up first. You will gain a great deal of
peace, will-power and control of mind.
Suppose you like tea, mangoes, grapes and sweets very much. Make it a point
to renounce them and even the desire for these objects. After some months, the
craving or the hankering will be attenuated and will slowly vanish. You must be
devoting three or four hours daily in proper prayer, Japa and meditation of God.
The above objects which used to attract you before very much seem very loathsome
now. They present the very reverse of your former feelings. They give you
intense pain. This is a sign of true Vairagya (dispassion) and destruction of
the mind.
If all objects which have an enchanting appearance become eyesores and
present the very reverse of the former feelings, then know that the mind is
destroyed. When the mind is changed, the objects which gave you pleasure before
will give you pain. That is the sign of annihilation of the mind.
Things which used to upset you easily will not touch you now. Occasions which
would have made you irritable do not make you so now. You have gained strength,
power and endurance, power of resistance, power to deal with troubles. Certain
unkind words from other people which used to torment you, no longer give you the
trouble now. Even if you become irritable and show signs of anger, you are able
now to compose yourself quickly. These are all the signs of your gaining mental
strength and will-power. Meditation brings about all these beneficial results.
When there is quiescence in the mind and an indifference in it towards all
enjoyments and when the powerful Indriyas are turned inwards and the Ajnana of
the mind is destroyed, then and then only all the noble words of the wise Guru
will infiltrate and spread in the mind of the disciple, just as rose-coloured
water impinges on a perfectly white cloth.
Have Santosha
The mind is ease-loving, easy-going and happy-go-lucky. You must check this
nature. The desire for ease and comfort is ingrained in the mind. Aspirants
should be very cautious and careful. Do not try to fulfil your desires. This is
one way of controlling the mind.
You must not take back those things which you have once renounced. Whenever
you give up an object, the desire for that particular object becomes keen and
strong for a few days. It agitates your mind. Keep quiet. Stand firm. It gets
thinned out and dies eventually. Whenever the mind hisses to get back the
objects that are rejected, raise the rod of Viveka. It will lower down its hood.
It will keep quiet.
You must not give indulgence or leniency to the mind. If you increase your
wants even by one article, the articles will begin to swell in number. Luxuries
will come one by one. If you allow it to take one luxury today, it wants two
tomorrow. Luxuries will increase daily. It will become like an overfondled
child. Spare the rod and spoil the child; this also applies to the mind. It is
worse than the child. You will have to punish it by fasting for every serious
mistake it does. Keep the organs in their proper places. Do not allow them to
move an inch. Raise the rod of Viveka whenever an organ hisses to raise its
head. By this practice you will get a concentrated mind. Those who, without
longing for objects, avoid them can be termed the subjugators of their minds.
Those who are not content with anything that comes in their way are of weak
minds only. Santosha (contentment in the mind) is a very great virtue.
"Santoshat paramam labham-by contentment, you will have great gain." It
is one of the four sentinels of the vast domain of Moksha. If you have this
virtue, it will lead to the attainment of Satsanga (association with the wise),
Vichara (enquiry of Self) and Santi (peace).
When you do not want to store things for tomorrow, it is called "Asangraha
Buddhi." It is the mental state of a true Sannyasin. A Sannyasin has no thought
of tomorrow; whereas a householder has, on the opposite, Sangraha Buddhi. We
must be as free as a lark which has no "Sangraha Buddhi."
Take Everything As It Comes
Take everything as it comes, instead of complaining. By this means, one
seizes every opportunity. One develops easily, gains a great deal of mental
strength and evenness of mind. Irritability vanishes. Power of endurance and
patience will develop.
If you have to live amidst noise, do not complain of it, but profit by it.
One may make use of outer disturbances for the practice of concentration. You
must develop the power to work undisturbed by whatsoever may happen nearby. The
power comes with practice and it is then useful in a variety of ways. To learn
to work under different conditions means progress and a great deal of mental
control.
Have Recourse To Satsanga
Without being impressed with a clear idea of the nature of the mind, you
cannot bridle it. A sublime thought checks the mind and a base idea excites it.
It is necessary for a man to keep company with spiritual men and to avoid the
company of the dregs of society.
Company of spiritual persons and good environments play a tremendous part in
the elevation of the mind. Satsanga helps a long way in the attainment of
Moksha. There is no other way. It thoroughly overhauls the mind and changes the
current and its Rajasic nature. It removes the old Vishaya-Samskaras and fills
the mind with Sattvic Samskaras. It destroys the three fires-Adhyatmic,
Adhibhautic and Adhidaivic Tapa-and cools the Antahkarana. It destroys Moha. If
you can have Satsanga, you need not go to any Tirtha. It is Tirtha of Tirthas.
Wherever there is Satsanga, the sacred Triveni is already there.
Annihilate this mind of Ajnana (ignorance) through the power of constant
association with holy men (Satsanga). In the absence of positive good company,
have negative good company of books written by realised persons and books
dealing with Atma-Jnana (spiritual knowledge) such as Sri Sankara's works,
Yogavasishtha, Sri Dattatreya's Avadhuta Gita, the Upanishads, the
Brahma-Sutras, Atma-Purana, Sarva-Vedanta-Siddhanta-Sara-Sangraha, Sri
Sankaracharya's Aparokshanubhuti, etc., etc.
Study of inspiring books helps spiritual Sadhana but too much study brings
about muddy condition of the brain. When you come down from meditation, you can
study occasionally for a short time book slike Avadhuta-Gita, Yogavasishtha,
Katha-Upanishad, Brihadaranyaka-Upanishad. This will elevate the mind.
If you are in the company of Sannyasins, if you read books on Yoga, Vedanta,
etc., a mental adhesion takes place in the mind for attaining God-consciousness.
Mere mental adhesion will not help you much either. Burning Vairagya, burning
Mumukshutva, capacity for spiritual Sadhana, intent and constant application and
Nididhyasana (meditation) are needed. Then only is Self-realisation possible.
Annihilate Sankalpas
The ideas of differentiation of this person or that person or 'I' or 'thou'
or of this or that object do pertain to the mind only. Put an end to the mind
with the sword of Abhavana (non-thought). Kill the soldiers one by one when they
emerge out of the fort. Eventually you can get hold of the fortress. Even so,
destroy every thought one by one as it arises in the mind. Eventually you can
conquer the mind.
If you can do the extinction of all sorts of Kalpanas (imaginations,
thoughts). like thick clouds that are dispersed through stormy gales, the mind
will get absorbed into the Source, Chit (Absolute Consciousness). Then you will
be free from all sorts of tribulations and worries and miseries. Then only you
will have perennial happiness and the wealth of Moksha.
Mind is Maya. If the mind runs towards the sensual objects wildly, Maya takes
a stronghold of the man. Maya havocs through the mind. This lower impulsive mind
drags you down in all kinds of petty sensual enjoyments and deludes you in a
variety of ways. Maya, through her power, raises millions of Sankalpas in the
mind. The Jiva becomes a prey to the Sankalpas.
This lower Manas cannot approach those who have a strong Viveka (power of
discrimination) between Sat and Asat (the real and the unreal). Maya is very
easy to be detected and Self to be realised by men who possess discrimination
and strong determination. Through these powers, viz., Viveka and will, it
can be controlled.
Slay the lower mind, the enemy of Atman through the higher and Sattvic mind.
Use your Vichara, Viveka and pure reason constantly when objects trouble you,
delude you. After reason has dispersed the darkness of the illusions of sense
which cover the mind, it still returns to those things which are deceitful as
the appearance of water on sandy deserts. Again and again, exercise your reason
till you are established in knowledge. The power of Avidya is great, indeed.
Renounce desires; renounce Sankalpas of objects. Cultivate Vairagya. Give up
this little false 'I.' All the Sankalpas encircle and envelop this 'I.' Do not
pay much heed to the body. Think of the body and its wants as little as
possible.
Have no Sankalpa. The fluctuating mind will die by itself. It will melt in
Brahman (Arupa Manonasa). Then you will have the Sakshatkara (Beatific vision of
Atman). When the mind dies, 'I,' 'you,' 'he,' 'this,' 'that,' time, space, Jiva,
Jagat, all will dwindle into nothing. Idea of inside and outside will vanish.
There will be only one experience of the One, Akhanda (the indivisible)
Chidakasa which is Paripurna (all-full). All the doubts and delusions will
disappear through the Jnana in the heart.
Destroy The Ego
You should try to destroy not only the thoughts (Sankalpas), but the mind
itself and the Aham Vritti that identifies with the body and the Vyavaharic
Buddhi that creates the Jiva-Bhava and differences in the world. Then you will
be established in Svarupa (Sahaja-Sat-Chit-Ananda-Nirvikalpa) state. That is the
real Mouna state or Advaita Brahmanishtha. Control of mind includes control of
Buddhi and the annihilation of the little 'I,' the false self-arrogating
personality.
Lord Jesus says, "Empty thyself and I will fill thee." The meaning is:
"Destroy your egoism. You will be filled with God." This emptying means
"Yogas-chittavrittinirodhah- restraining all the mental modifications."
This emptying process or "making the mind blank" is, no doubt, a trying
discipline. But, continued practice of an intense type will bring success. There
is no doubt about this. It is only through the rigorous discipline that you can
rise to that height of strenuous impersonality from which the gifted souls of
the world see distant visions and enjoy a higher, divine life.
If the mind is divested of all the Sankalpas of 'I,' then, through meditation
of Atman after being initiated by a Guru and having known the real significance
of the Vedas, the mind can be turned back from various pains and made to rest on
the subjective blissful Atman.
Practise Brahma-Vichara
Do not wrestle or struggle with the mind. It is wastage of energy. It is
great strain and drain on the will-force. Do not fight with the mind. Live in
Truth. Live in OM. Live in Atman through Vichara, Brahma-Bhavana and
Nididhyasana. All obstacles, all disturbing factors, all emotions will vanish of
themselves. Try, practise, feel and realise the usefulness of the Vichara
method. Perfect control of mind can be effected only through Brahma-Vichara.
Pranayama, Japa and various other methods are only auxiliaries.
Do Not Let Failures Discourage You
Do not let failures discourage you, but go on doing your best. Do not brood
over your faults and failures. Only look at them to see the reason why you
failed and then, try again. So doing, you will starve out the tendencies which
led you into them; whereas, thinking about them only gives them new strength. Do
not make too much fuss about little failures. Do not sit down and brood over
failures.
There are some people who have got the habit of trying to do one thing while
thinking of another. These people always fail in undertakings. The thinking part
of the mind should work in harmony with the acting part of the mind. While
attending to any one object, our thoughts ought not to wander on another. While
you are reading, think of reading only. Do not think of cricket match. While you
are playing in a cricket match, do not think of studies. The frequent cause of
failure is striving to think of more than one thing at a time.
Whenever you observe Niyama (religious observances) do it to the letter
rigidly. Do not say, "I will do it as far as possible." This term 'as far as
possible' will give leniency to the mind. The mind will be simply waiting for an
opportunity and it will yield to the first temptation quite readily, whenever
the first chance arises. Be strict, therefore.
Check The Wandering Habit Of The Mind
The mind in the vast majority of persons has been allowed to run wild and
follow its own sweet will and desire. It is ever changing and wandering. It
jumps from one object to another. It is fickle. It wants variety. Monotony
brings disgust. It is like a spoiled child who is given to much indulgence by
its parents or a badly trained animal. The minds of many of us are like
menageries of wild animals, each pursuing the bent of its own nature and going
its own way. Restraint of the mind is a thing unknown to the vast majority of
persons.
This wandering habit of the mind manifests itself in various ways. You will
have to be alert always to check this wandering habit of the mind. A
householder's mind wanders to cinema, theatre, circus, etc. A Sadhu's mind
wanders to Varanasi, Vrindavana and Nasik. Many Sadhus do not stick to one place
during Sadhana. The wandering habit of the mind must be controlled by rendering
it chaste and constant by Vichara. The mind must be trained to stick to one
place for five years during your meditative life, to one method of Sadhana, to
one path of Yoga-either Karma, Bhakti or Vedanta-to one spiritual objective and
to one guide. "A rolling stone gathers no moss." When you take up a book for
study, you must finish it before you take up another. When you take up any work,
you must devote your whole-hearted attention to the work on hand and finish it
before you take up another work. "One thing at a time and that done well is a
very good rule as many can tell." This is Yogin's way of doing. This is a very
good rule for success in life.
Do not have a goat's mind or a prostitute's heart. A goat grazes for a few
seconds in one patch of green grass and then immediately jumps to a far distant
patch, even though there is plenty of grass to eat in the first patch. Even so,
a wavering mind jumps from one Sadhana to another Sadhana, from one Guru to
another Guru, from Bhakti Yoga to Vedanta, from Rishikesh to Vrindavana. This is
extremely deleterious for the Sadhana. Stick to one Guru, one place, one form of
Yoga, one kind of Sadhana. Be steady and firm. Then only, you will succeed. Have
a steady, resolute mind.
Discipline the mind. Tell the mind, "O Mind! Be steady. Be fixed on one idea.
Absolute is the only Reality." If it wanders, if it wavers, go to a lonely
place, give two or three sharp slaps on your face. Then the mind will become
steady. Self-punishment helps a lot in checking the wandering mind. Frighten the
mind as if you will beat it with a whip or rod, whenever it wanders from the
Lakshya, whenever it entertains evil thoughts.
Mind tempts and deceives you through object. Distance lends enchantment to
the view. Until you attain the object, it will seem to you as a pleasurable
object from a distance. When you actually get it, it becomes a source of
vexation and pain. Desire is mixed with pain. Objects are so delusive that they
often deceive even the wise in this way. He is a really wise man who can detect
the illusive nature of these objects.
Mind always tempts you to have various sightseeing. It is all vain trick of
the mind to divert you from the goal. Use your Viveka always. Address the mind
thus: "O foolish mind, have you not seen before, various places and scenery?
What is there in sightseeing? Rest in Atman within. It is self-contained. You
can see everything there. It is Purnakama; it is Purnarupa. (It contains all
forms; it is Beauty of beauties). What are you going to see outside? Is it not
the same sky, the same earth, the same passions, the same eating, the same
gossiping, the same sleeping, the same latrines, the same urinals, the same
cemeteries everywhere?"
In the beginning, I used to give a long rope to my mind. It will whisper to
me, "Let me go to Allahabad Kumbha Mela." I would say, "My dear friend, my mind!
You can go now." As soon as I return, I would ask, "O mind, are you satisfied
now? What did you enjoy there?" It would hide itself and drop down its head in
utter shame. Gradually, it left off its old habits and became my true friend,
guide and Guru through true counsels it imparts in the way of obtaining the
highest goal.
Do not allow the mind to wander here and there like the strolling street dog.
Keep it under your control always. Then alone you can be happy. It must be ever
ready to obey you, to carry out your behests. If the mind says to you, "Go
eastward," then go westward. If the mind says to you, "Go southward," then march
northward. If the mind says to you, "Take a hot cup of tea in winter," then take
a cup of icy cold water. Swim like fish against the mental current. You will
control the mind quite easily.
Order the mind to do a thing which it does not relish and it will revolt.
Coax and it will obey.
If the mind is deprived of its pleasure-centres of all sense-objects, it
clings to Vairagya and Tyaga and must naturally move towards Atman. Renounce
everything mentally and destroy the mind through the attainment of Atma-Jnana.
Rest in the self-existent Brahmic seat. It is only through dauntless energy that
the painless wealth of Moksha can be acquired.
Change The Habits
Mind is a bundle of habits. Bad habits and prejudices hidden in one's nature
will necessarily be brought to the surface of the mind when the proper
opportunity comes. If you change the habits, you can also change your character.
You sow an act; you reap a habit. You sow a habit; you reap a character. You sow
a character; you reap a destiny. Habits originate in the conscious mind. But,
when they become established by constant repetition, they sink down into the
depths of the unconscious mind and become 'second nature.'
Though habit is second nature, it can be changed by a new healthy, agreeable
habit of a stronger nature. You can change any habit by patient efforts and
perseverance. Habits of sleeping in the daytime, late rising, loud talking,
etc., can be gradually changed by developing new habits.
By new practice, you can change the manner of your handwriting. So also, by a
new mode of thinking, you can change your destiny. When you draw water with a
rope and bucket from a well with a brick parapet, a definite groove is formed
along the brick and the rope readily runs along the groove. Even so, the mental
force (the mind) runs easily or flows readily along the grooves in the brain
made by continuous thinking on certain lines. Now you are thinking, 'I am the
body.' Think, 'I am Brahman.' In course of time, you will be established in
Brahmic consciousness.
By spiritual Sadhana, Vichara, meditation, Pranayama, Japa, Sama and Dama an
entirely new mind is formed in a Sadhaka with new feelings, new nerve-channels,
new avenues and grooves in the brain for the mind to move and walk about, new
nerve-currents and new brain-cells, etc. He will never think about affairs that
tend to self-aggrandisement and self-exaltation. He thinks for the well-being of
the world. He thinks, feels and works in terms of unity.
Do not be a slave to one idea. Whenever you get new healthy ideas, the old
ideas must be given up. The vast majority of persons are slaves of old outgrown
ideas. They have not got the strength to change the old habits in the mind and
the old ideas. When you hear a new and striking news, you are startled. When you
see a new thing, you are startled. It is natural. It is much more so with new
ideas. The mind runs in ruts-in its old, narrow grooves. It is directly or
indirectly attached to some pleasing or favourite ideas. It unnecessarily sticks
to one idea like glue and never gives it up. It is a great ordeal for the mind
to take up a new idea. Whenever you want to introduce any new, healthy idea in
the mind and eschew any old outgrown idea, the mind fights against it and rebels
with vehemence. Place the idea near the ruts. It will slowly take it. It may
revolt furiously to take it up in the beginning. Later on, by coaxing and
training, it will absorb and assimilate it.
In the mind, there is an internal fight that is ever going on between
Svabhava (nature) and will, between old worldly habits and new spiritual habits
in the case of the aspirants, between old Vishaya-Samskaras and new spiritual
Samskaras, between Subha Vasanas and Asubha Vasanas, between Viveka and
instinctive mind and Indriyas. Whenever you try to change an evil habit and
establish a new habit, there will ensue an internal fight between Will and
Svabhava. If you try to drive away anger, lust, etc., they say and assert, "O
Jivas! You have given us permission to stay in this house of flesh and body for
a long time. Why do you want to drive us now? We have helped you a lot during
times of your excitements and passions. We have every right to remain here. We
will persist, resist all your efforts to drive us; we shall disturb your
meditation and recur again and again." The Svabhava will try its level best to
get back to its old habit. Never yield. The will is bound to succeed in the end.
Even if you fail once or twice, it does not matter. Again apply the will.
Eventually, will-pure, strong and irresistible-is bound to succeed. There is no
doubt about this. When your reason grows, when you become wiser and wiser by
study, contact with the wise and meditation, your mind must be well prepared to
take up at any moment new, healthy, rational ideas and eschew old, morbid ones.
This is a healthy growth of the mind.
Mind Is Your Tool Only: Handle It Nicely
Mind is your tool or instrument only. You must know how to handle it nicely.
When emotions, moods, sentiments, arise in the mind, separate them, study their
nature, dissect and analyse them. Do not identify yourself with them. The real
'I' is entirely distinct from them. It is the silent Sakshi. Master your
impulses, emotions and moods and rise from the position of a slave to a
spiritual king who can rule over them with force and power. You are eternal,
all-pervading Atman in reality. Shake yourself from the tyranny of the mind that
has oppressed you for so long, domineered over you and exploited you uptil now.
Rise up boldly like a lion. Assert the magnanimity of your Self and be free.
Become an expert driver of the subtle, powerful 'machine-mind.' Use all the
mental faculties to your best advantage. Mind will become quite a good, willing
servant when you know how to tackle with it ably. Use the subconscious mind
also; pass on orders to work for you while you are asleep and even while you are
conscious. It will sort, analyse and rearrange all facts and figures for you in
the twinkling of an eye.
The mind is very plastic if you know the secret of its manipulation. You can
bend it any way you like. You can create a dislike for the things you like best
now and a liking for the articles which now you dislike most.
Do a thing which the mind does not want to do. Do not do a thing which the
mind wants to do. This is one way of developing the will and controlling the
mind.
Maintain A Positive Attitude
Try to acquire the power of closing yourself against detrimental or
undesirable influences by making yourself positive by a particular attitude of
the mind. By so doing, you may be receptive to all higher impulses of the soul
within and to all higher forces and influences from without. Make a suggestion
to yourself, "I close myself; I make myself positive to all things below and
open and receptive to all higher influences, to all things above." By taking
this attitude of the mind, consciously, now and then, it soon becomes a habit.
All the lower and undesirable influences from both the seen and the unseen side
of life are closed out while all higher influences are invited and, in the
degree that they are invited, they will enter.
In the mind there is doubt; there is reality also. A doubt arises whether
there is a God or not. This is termed Samsaya-Bhavana. Another doubt crops up
whether I can realise Brahman or not. Then another voice yells: "God or Brahman
is real. He is a solid, concrete Reality as an Amalaka fruit in my hand. He is a
mass of Knowledge and Ananda (Prajnanaghana, Chidghana, Anandaghana). I can
realise!" We have clearly understood something and these ideas are well-grounded
and ingrained. Some ideas are hazy and not firm. They come and go. We will have
to cultivate ideas and ground them till they are firmly fixed and implanted.
Clarification of ideas will remove perplexity and confusion in the mind.
When a doubt arises, "whether there is God or not, whether I will succeed in
Self-realisation or not," it must be dispelled by well-directed suggestions and
affirmations such as: "It is true; I will succeed. There is no doubt of this."
In my dictionary, in my vocabulary, there are no such words as 'can't,'
'impossible,' 'difficult,' etc. Everything is possible under the sun. Nothing is
difficult when you strongly make up your mind. Strong determination and firm
resolution will bring sanguine success in every affair or undertaking.
The Power Of The Helping Forces
Inside, there are helping forces also to act against the hostile forces of
demoniacal nature. If you once repeat 'Om' or 'Rama' ten times, if you once sit
in meditation for five minutes, the Samskara of this will force you to repeat
the Mantra again many times, to sit again in meditation for some time though you
forget all about spirituality owing to the force of Maya or Avidya. The hostile
forces, e.g., lust, anger, etc., will try to bring you down; the spiritual
currents, the force of Sattva and Subha Vasanas will try to take you up to God.
If evil thoughts enter your mind once in a month instead of thrice weekly
(remember that evil thinking is the beginning of adultery), if you become angry
once in a month instead of once weekly, that is a sign of progress, that is a
sign of your increased will-power; that is a sign of growing spiritual strength.
Be of good cheer. Keep a diary of spiritual progress.
A mind always hopeful, confident, courageous and determined on its set
purpose and keeping itself to that purpose, attracts to itself, out of the
elements, things and powers favourable to that purpose.
Some Guide-Lines In Mind-Control
Mind is so framed that it runs to extremes. Through Sadhana or spiritual
practice, it should be brought to a balanced state (Samata). It is one-sided by
its very nature. It is through mental drill or training that integral
development must be achieved.
Make a vigorous and earnest search within. Do not trust the mind and the
Indriyas. They are your enemies. Women and wealth are your bitter foes. These
are two great evils.
Mind exercises its sovereignty over man through the force of attachment,
craving, Samskara and Vasana (tendency, latent desire, will to possess and
enjoy, world-desire). It does various tricks. When you once know its ways, it
lurks like a thief. It will no longer trouble you.
In controlling the mind, you have to do seven things: (1) You must get rid of
all desires, Vasanas and Trishnas. (2) You must control your emotions. You must
control the temper so that you may feel no anger or impatience. (3) You must
control the mind itself so that the thought may always be calm and unruffled.
(4) You must control the nerves through the mind so that they may be as little
irritable as possible. (5) You must give up Abhimana. Abhimana strengthens the
mind. It is the seed of the mind. When you have become a Nirabhimani, how can
criticisms, taunts and censure affect you? (6) You must destroy all attachments
ruthlessly. (7) You must give up all hopes and prejudices.
The following will bring you peace of mind undoubtedly. (1) Avoid the company
of evil persons. (2) Live alone. (3) Reduce your wants. (4) Do not argue.
Arguing creates sense of hostility. It is a sheer waste of energy. (5) Do not
compare yourself with others. (6) Do not lend your ears for public criticism.
(7) Give up the idea of name and fame.
According to Patanjali Maharshi, Maitri (friendship between equals), Karuna
(mercy towards inferiors), Mudita (complacency towards superiors), Upeksha
(indifference towards rogues), will bring about Chittaprasada or peace of mind.
You should, through your higher Sattvic mind, avoid the mind which runs in
the direction of objects and, progressing higher up, should, without any
despondency of heart, accumulate wealth of Tapasya for acquiring that
imperishable Supreme Seat (Parama Pada). Like an emperor who brings under his
sway all kings on earth, the fluctuating mind should be brought under the
perfect control of the non-fluctuating mind and then, the latter reaches its own
state which is the Supreme One.